Will came to a conclusion on Saturday and for a long time, I wondered if he had ever noticed. Because of Will's Asperger's I think he sometimes missing the "big" things that others would notice.
For days Nick and I have been on him to stop licking around his lips because it gets so dried out. Well lo and behold, he got a little sore there. Because of his pigment I have always worried about his discoloration with scabs. So, we used a wonderful Johnson and Johnson product.
On Saturday Nick took me for a drive and Will was looking in the rear view mirror. He looks to us and says, "Mommy and daddy my skin is all better. It is turning brown again."
Now for us, that was the first time he ever acknowledged the color of skin. So me being a mom, I dug a little deeper.
I asked, "So what color is your skin?" Will replies, "Brown."
I asked, "What color is mommy's skin?" He replies, "Peach."
Okay .... I think he gets it!
I asked, "What color is Reagan's skin?" Will replies, "Peach like yours."
I asked, "What color is daddy's skin?" He replies, "Brown like mine!"
So, I guess the lesson here is even though we might not all share the same skin color, he can at least find someone that in his eyes looks like him, and I sure am glad it's his dad! Thank goodness for Nick's dark tanning ability!
Blessings for your family today!
-Becca